tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1930321701027598889.post4185570992998611811..comments2024-01-05T21:06:37.634-06:00Comments on TigressPen's Surmisals: Domestic Abuse and Stephanie LewisTigressPenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10486657532479733143noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1930321701027598889.post-15019192312956737162013-04-17T09:22:17.725-05:002013-04-17T09:22:17.725-05:00Anonymous April 16, 2013 at 1:38 PM
I understand ...Anonymous April 16, 2013 at 1:38 PM<br /><br />I understand your sympathy for the abuser, you apparently know him and it's hard to see a darker side of one we care about, but no excuse is a right excuse to do what he did. He should be in jail and hopefully will stay there for a very long time. Glad to hear Stephanie has moved on with her life. Sadly, moving on won't erase what happen to her from her mind. She will always look behind her. I hope she has gotten help dealing with the trauma Derrick inflicted on her.<br /><br />TigressPen<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1930321701027598889.post-38535205731970268022013-04-16T13:38:01.641-05:002013-04-16T13:38:01.641-05:00It's sad to say that people judge before they ...It's sad to say that people judge before they know the whole matter. I do not agree with what Derrick did but I also know there was a reason for why he did the crime. She is not as innocent as one would believe her to be. I will not go directly into details about why he did what he did but I will say it was a provoking from Stephanie he could not handle. I will now say that Derrick is not a threat to Stephanie anymore not because he is doing time but because he realizes that it's over and he cannot go back and change what he did but learn from his actions. Stephanie has moved on and remarried. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1930321701027598889.post-65002012085426591252010-07-11T12:49:05.063-05:002010-07-11T12:49:05.063-05:00Delilah, 'Although this man is in jail, it do...Delilah, 'Although this man is in jail, it doesn't always mean the victim should feel safe'<br />That comment and the 'he is in jail, I am safe' false sense of security' is exactly why I worry about Stephanie just as I am concerned about Jeanette Barouch (her husband 'allegedly' sent her the bomb she found on her porch) Their safety must become paramount to them and each seriously need to use The Evidentiary Abuse Affidavit to ensure if anything happens in the future their ex spouse would be the first person LE looks at for answers. <br /><br />The rest of the book as well as chpater 4 can give them so much information on how to be safe.TigressPenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10486657532479733143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1930321701027598889.post-233711115392574342010-07-06T19:35:32.188-05:002010-07-06T19:35:32.188-05:00The creep was arrainged and did lose his freedom w...The creep was arrainged and did lose his freedom with the previous domestic violence charges. Stephanie is safe for now.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1930321701027598889.post-39647659736094070912010-07-06T08:50:35.733-05:002010-07-06T08:50:35.733-05:00You hit the nail on the head. Although this man i...You hit the nail on the head. Although this man is in jail, it doesn't always mean the victim should feel safe. No one knows his connections outside of the jail and what he may be able to direct from behind bars. All too often there is a false sense of security. Thanks, again, for recommending Time's Up, this is definitely a time when she should get all her ducks in a row and get the Evidentiary Abuse Affidavit done.Delilahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09129593439262648032noreply@blogger.com